To Grasp a Snake by Ajahn Chah

“Our practice here is not to grasp anything,” Ajahn Chah told a new monk.

“But isn’t it necessary to hold onto things sometimes?” the monk protested.

“With the hands, yes! but not with the heart,” the teacher replied. “When the heart grasps what is painful, it is like being bitten by a snake. And when, through desire, it grasps what is pleasant, it is just grasping the tail of the snake. It only takes a little while longer for the head of the snake to come around and bite you. .

“Make this nongrasping and mindfulness the guardian of your heart, like a parent. Then your likes and dislikes will come calling like children. ‘I don’t like that, Mommy. I want more of that, Daddy.’ Just smile and say, ‘Sure, kid.’ ‘But Mommy, I really want an elephant.’ ‘Sure, kid.’ ‘I want candy. Can we go for an airplane ride?’ There is no problem if you can let them come and go without grasping.”

Something contacts the senses; like or dislike arises; and right there is delusion. Yet with mindfulness, wisdom can arise in this same experience. “

A Still Forest Pool, by Ajahn Chah